Thursday, May 5, 2011

fire fighters and group glee and work

Dear Nursery Families,

I wrote a number of you individually about the evolving cooperative play scenarios coming to life in the Butterfly classroom and outdoors. On Wednesday again a theme of fire fighters working together to create big structures to burn down and then rescuing the structures was an important theme. Girls and boys both worked on this project for a long time, and children put their imaginative muscles to good use in devising costumes to wear for their roles--there were a number of baskets improvised as helmets.

Wednesday also provided a lot of opportunities for physical exertion and purposeful work. Lynne has been taking larger and larger groups of children (sometimes the entire class) on longer and longer walks exploring the woods near our bonfire. At our playground, children helped Lynne locate the big wheelbarrow (the search was as much fun as the discovery) and then helped her move woodchips. I spotted children (by refraining from intervening unless really necessary) as they climbed and jumped from a play structure; a number seemed content with their increasing confidence and competence.

Inside I noticed how merry the children were--a bit bouncy, a bit noisy. I also noticed that the harmony of their creative play lives on even in the noisier moments. Lynne and I work hard to help children read cues, to notice the other. Does this child seek this sort of game right now? Or something quieter? Is this child feeling left out when you say only girls or only boys allowed? While we try to do this with as few words or explanations or confusions as possible, we do foster the development of these important social skills. I found nothing threatening in some of the rowdier moments of Wednesday--I was scanning the room to make sure the mood worked for all children--and the children seemed to be able to make a transition to quieter parts of the morning with grace. The classroom had a lively and healthy sense of breathing.

When I was a new teacher, I remember reading about the phenomenon of group glee, a moment in which an entire class enters an ecstasy of laughter or delight. The researcher posited that this was extremely healthy for children and almost impossible for a teacher to deal with (especially if one has an agenda of academic or even artistic or craft projects to force along). By working to simplify and refine the nursery morning to minimize a sense of haste or hurry, we perhaps create the possibility for children to flow in a natural way from activity to rest. Or perhaps I was lucky. Lynne and I are ever ready to intervene or, as Kim Payne advises aware teachers and parents, "Don't just do something! Stand there!"

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

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Sunday, May 1, 2011

Flow

Dear Nursery Families,

As winter rolls into spring, the play of children has blossomed and grown in diverse and delightful directions. I've hesitated to write about how well I perceive things seem to be going in class because we have had one or two children consistently absent over the past 2 months, and I did not want to inadvertently suggest that a child or two are not part of the synergy of the group. Having observed children in class and elsewhere, I can now say with assurance that I have seen all the children--whether they are coming to class frequently or not--find new ways of playing and interacting with one another that has been very heartening.

With boys and girls, I have observed two parallel and apparently but not necessarily contradictory trends in the past months. At times, groups of 4 or 5 boys have been engaged in a common project--such as a construction project on the playground involving sand and mud and muck and a wheelbarrow that--la bit ike the rock os Sysiphus--tips over the moment it is filled with too much sand and much. And like an indefatigable hero from Greek myth (minus the sense of doom), children pick up the wheelbarrow and start their work anew. Among the girls, tensions about swings have abated in general, and I have observed the increasing strength and confidence as children propel themselves on the swing or push others on the tire swing. In the woods, it is not infrequent that girls will sally forth with or without Lynne to explore the trails near our bonfire (I created the trails to allow children to explore while still being near me and Lynne for safety).

I wrote a while back about one transformation in indoor play. Children who had been ostensibly afraid of a dramatic play theme such as a dragon or lion now seemed to be the ones inviting those ideas into the classroom--this was what they needed to work on. While this still occurs from time to time, I have also noticed an increased number of physical games that do not involve the idea of aggression. Mutual tumbles or wrestling initiated by girls or boys seem to bring delight to both children; last week I watched a boy and girl roll and tumble down the hill at our clearing in the woods with great delight. They'd climb, hug, roll down the hill, and laugh. A few times their tumbles were bigger than they expected, but they recovered quickly and continued their game. In the classroom, their have been some voluntary pile-ons, much like in Rugby and Football. These Lynne and I keep an eye on to make sure that every child is enjoying the game. Lots of dads and grandfathers and stepfathers have been joining the imaginative play scenarios involving moms and babies in the classroom; children have set up doctor's offices to make sure babies or moms or dads are well cared for.

While conflicts do emerge and children sometimes seem capable of getting stuck in a habit of play (e.g., the way to play is to take something away from another), I witness increasing flexibility and ability to enter the flow and hum of the classroom. It can be lively; it can be noisy; it is certainly wonderful.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

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May 13 Beach Gathering

Dear Nursery and Parent & Child Families,

We will have another informal potluck at Maxwelton Beach on Friday, May 13, from 5pm to 7pm. I will bring my guitar and copies of Rise Up Singing; if a sing-along seems right, we will make it happen.

Warmly,

William Dolde

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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

On Scary Images -- From my archives

Dear Nursery Families,

Last February at the Waldorf Early Childhood Teacher's Conference, Johanna Steegmans (a wise woman and anthroposophical doctor from Seattle) was answering questions from Waldorf kindergarten teachers. One teacher described a situation in her classroom. She observed a group of girls playing with what seemed a delightful hum--cooperatively and quietly in the housekeeping corner with the dolls. The teacher went closer to try to hear what they were saying, and when she did, she heard one describe to the others, "And once we cook these babies, we'll eat them up." I am not Steegmans and cannot do justice to her response, but it related to how of course these 5 and 6 year old girls might need to play this out because of all the violent tumult of change in the rapid development of their inner organs. Steegmans was not telling the teacher not to do something (especially, I might say, if this game were about pretending to eat another child and really bothered that child, as well it might) but giving teachers a way to find an inspired response that came out of understanding and not kneejerk reaction (the rub of early childhood teaching and parenting, in which we find ourselves saying things such as, "Please stop licking the table!").

I know there have been some questions about what is an OK and not an OK image in child's play, and I remember writing a good deal about this 2 years ago. I am sharing the link below. The average age of the nursery class was a good deal older 2 years ago than in our currrent nursery class, so not everything would apply. I told The Wolf and the Seven Little Kids to that class, for example, and I wouldn't tell it yet to our current class. I thought it'd be helpful, nonetheless, in looking forward, to think about potentially upsetting images in fairy tales and imaginative play.

http://butterflynursery.blogspot.com/2009/05/may-newsletter-fairy-tales-gender.html

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Thursday, April 21, 2011

Beach morning tomorrow

Hi Families,

This is reminder that current, past, and future families are invited to gather at Maxwelton Beach from 9:30am to 12:30pm tomorrow, Friday, April 22 (note the new, slightly later end time for morning nappers).  Feel free to bring a brunch or lunch item to share (we will have a lunch at 11:30; I know some of you may have to leave before that for midday naps).  Please bring plates and utensils if you can.

Cheers,

William

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

April 22 Gathering

Dear nursery and parent & child families,

You and your children of all ages are invited to an informal gathering at Maxwelton beach on Friday, April 22nd, from 930 am to noon. Please bring a brunch potluck to share. The bathrooms are open, but the garbage cans have been removed.

I'll send a reminder next week.

Cheers

William

Monday, April 4, 2011

Summer Playgroup Details

Dear Nursery Parents,

Some of you have asked me if I am offering a summer playgroup.  I am for six weeks.  Follow this link to see the brochure.

Thanks,

William