Class Meeting, November 6

Sunflower and Golden Forest Class Meeting
Tuesday, November 6, 6:30-8pm

Singing:  "O How Lovely is the Evening" and Lantern Songs

Compassionate Response Meditation (from Kim Payne).  During Kim's recent visit, he helped William refine and augment the meditation, and William is eager to share with our parents.

Success Stories on "Dialing it Down" (from Kim Payne).  In his lecture at WICA, again and again Kim described how simplifying the home and school life can help children, whether they tend to exhibit or attract bullying behavior, and even if they don't.  One parent, inspired by Kim (she also noticed both her children were showing lots of signs of stress and distress), the next day cancelled a play date for her middle school son (his request), warmed a blanket in the dryer in the morning, and after dropping off her middle school son at school, snuggled with her 3rd grade daughter in the back of their car and read a book to her (rather than sending her off to play on the playground right away).  This felt really good to the mom and the children.  

Dyanne and William have both consciously simplified the rhythm of their mornings to minimize transitions, and both see what a gift this has been for their classes.

In our meeting, we are looking for any success stories of ways families have simplified and uncluttered their lives.  We are not going to try to "out-simplify" each other.  We encourage you to listen and find inspiration rather than expectation (if you take your child to school on the back of your motorcycle, for example, it probably won't be so soothing to cuddle on the back of the motorcycle with a warm blanket and a book on a rainy day).

Lantern Walk and Advent Season and Advent Spiral.  Dyanne will guide us through the festival seasons of our Lantern Walk and Advent Spiral.

Holiday Workshop and other Parental Sharing and Planning.

Conclusion:  Reprise of Singing.

pumpkins, reminders, appreciation

PUMPKINS

Please remember a pumpkin for your child this Monday. Please label. 7th graders will help us carve a pumpkin.

REMINDERS -- MEETING AND LANTERN WALK

On November 6 (a week from Tuesday), we will combine for a kindergarten class meeting. Time will be 6:30 to 8pm (note later start time). I will guide parents in a compassionate response meditation (work of Kim Payne), we will share success stories inspired by Kim Payne, Dyanne will talk about the lantern walk and Advent spiral (coming in December), and we will provide time for holiday workshop and other planning on the part of parents.

Our Lantern Walk will be at Maxwelton Beach (note location) on Friday, November 9, from 4:30-5:30pm. Expect a fuller description soon.

APPRECIATION -- birthdays and inside

We have started our inside days with birthday celebrations, including a double one. Often the additional tasks of the birthday can make the days feel stressful and hurried. While I have put great thought into simplifying and clarifying the rhythm of the day (inspired by Kim Payne and others), last Wednesday and Thursday had the potential to become chaotic--only because I had given me and Molly and the children more to accomplish than was reasonable to accomplish in the morning. It is with awe and appreciation that I observed the children remain calm, engaged, cooperative, imaginative, and playful. What a blessing to be in their presence.

hikes, inside, birthdays, Kim Payne, and other events

Dear Parents,

I'm really excited to be back with the children at school tomorrow.  Our Monday hikes and play in the wood have been so rich, so full of physical challenge and gorgeous social interaction, that my intention is to start our week tomorrow (Tuesday) as if it were Monday.  We'll take our long hike and end up for snack (almond rice cakes, tofu almond nori rolls, almond, veggies), an ample amount of play, and The Bremen Town musicians at Grandmother Rock.  On Wednesday, Molly and Kristin lead the children on another pleasant hike (serving hummus and crackers and veggies and fruit).

(It was thrilling to tell the Bremen Town Musicians last Monday.  Children were so engaged, a little tense when wondering what the robbers would do, and laughing with a hearty sense of relief when the robbers mistook the 4 animals for powerful opponents).

On Thursday we'll celebrate our first birthday of the year (Leon's) and have an extended time to play indoors for the whole class.  I am so pleased that we started with a lot of outdoor time; it is going to help us so much find delight, alignment, and just the right amount of challenge and contrast with our indoor work and play.  Thursday we'll eat soup with roasty toasties (egg donors can take a week off, or if you already have brought eggs, we will store them for a future week)--and of course little muffins that we will bake in class.

We'll celebrate 5 birthdays before the end of October.

Now that the weather is colder and wetter, on hike days (normally Monday and Tuesday), we will try to leave as soon as possible (9:30 or earlier).  The kindergarten playground is likely colder than your house, and it is certainly colder than where we hike and play in the woods.  If it is possible (only if it is possible) to provide your child an additional layer for the playground that we will shed before the hike, that would be ideal.

I will be finding what works well for our days of eating snack and playing and creating art and crafting inside (and slowly, with anticipation, meeting our little ones again and the like).  Rather than persisting with painting with small groups while others play outside, I plan now to keep us together as much as possible on the playground, and then come inside with plenty of time to snack, move and/or hear a story, play, craft, create, tidy up, and the like.  With the 5 birthdays and muffin baking, it is likely that it will take us a few weeks to settle to an indoor rhythm on Wednesdays and Thursdays.

Many events are marching toward us, hopefully with guffaws of delight.

Tuesday, October 16          Kim John Payne at WICA.  This is an event not to be missed.  Kim John Payne is a gifted speaker with a great amount of experience and wisdom on many topics.  This talk will be on Raising Socially Resilient Children.  Please attend if at all possible.

 

Wednesday, October 17   William not at school.  I am part of the core Social Inclusion Group, and I will be meeting with Kim Payne all day.  I look forward to sharing the gifts of his wisdoms and insights with anyone interested.

Monday, October 29   PUMPKIN CARVING with the 7th grade.  Kim always had her daughter's classes come assist our kindergarten children.  Ms. Lindstrom is thrilled to be asked, and we thnk her students will love helping us.  Please bring a pumpkin with your child's name on the bottom to school on that Monday.  If it helps relieve anxiety, feel free to bring the pumpkin earlier.  Small and simple is wonderful.  Our intention is to foster community and have a great time--I am less worried about final products.

Tuesday, October 30                      Middle School Open House.  This is a wonderful opportunity to experience the gifts of the middle school curriculum in a Waldorf School; to see where the children eventually get to from here.

 

Wednesday, October 31                 Halloween…Of course.  Since Halloween is filled with all kinds of wily activity in the latter part of the day, we will do our best to keep a normal rhythm in the morning.  The children love to tell each other what they are going to dress up as.  Please leave all dress up clothes and Halloween paraphernalia at home so as not to create further distraction from healthy imaginative play.  (By the way, my sons convinced me to dress up this year as Superman, but I will resist wearing my new costume to school as well).

 

Thursday, November 1                  The day after Halloween.  Since children are up later than usual the night before, and they are often coming down from an extra surge of excitement and sugar, we encourage you to consider bringing your child late to school on this day.  Giving them some time to sleep in, take the morning routine a little more slowly, etc. can be very helpful in some cases.

 

Sunday, November 4                       Time Change.   Move the clocks back one hour

 

Tuesday, November 6.   KINDERGARTEN PARENT EVENING, 6 to 7:30pm.  Please send me any topics you'd like to see as part of the meeting.  I envision us giving the Holiday Workshop parents time to speak, solicit help, whatever is needed.  We will sing and prepare for the lantern walk.  We will preview December's advent spiral.  I think it likely Dyanne and I will share insights from Kim Payne particularly suited to early childhood, and I'd love to have a discussion about Kim's lecture and reports from any parents who have tried anything he suggests.

Thurs & Fri November 8 & 9       Parent teacher conferences.  Early dimissal for Grade School. 12:30 dismissal for all EC classes.  No Robin Song Extended Care.  Cordula will be offering fee based child care for the time that parents are in conferences with the teachers.  If interested, please see Cordula for more details regarding age span, fees, etc..  Cordula will also be using my room for care, and for this and other reasons, I will be offering my conferences during my Tuesday office hours (or another time if needed).  In EC we find a different rhythm works best for conferences.  Before Christmas, I would like to meet with the 3 families with children of age to rise to first grade next year.  I would like to have conferences for the ten younger children in January and February, during office hours (and probably other times to fit them all in).

 

Friday November 9             Lantern Walk Festival for kindergartens, nursery, and parent child families.  This year will be a new location(!) with new inspiration(!)  More information will be coming out soon.

 

Wednesday, November 21                        Beginning of Thanksgiving Break.

 

 

With appreciation,

William